My girlfriend just broke up with me.
She did it because she felt bad for hurting me.
( I found out friday that she likes her ex. )
So, that really hurt me.
And now she just broke up with me. and i'm sad now. . .
I'm dangerous. I hurt people. but I don't mean to. I love her. But I don't. Does she love me?
This is going to sound a little strange, but bear with me. I'm 40, I've been around the block and done it all (some things twice just to be sure). I've had long-time girlfriends go sour, dated both the pastor's daughter and the "girl who scares you a little". I played the field hard when I was a young man, and I've got the scars to prove it. Let me tell you what I have learned:
Women are replaceable. There are 50,000 just like the one you had and the next two more you'll have in the future. Don't get bent over any one particular girl. Get another one and keep going.
Not to sound sexist, because I'll be the first to admit that this little nugget goes both ways. Women can (and do) do the same exact thing. (Well I guess you figured that part out already)
If you do anything, do this (here comes the strange part): Enjoy the strength of the feelings you are experiencing. Things seem so damn important and REAL when you are younger and as you age and become jaded that starts to fade. I dated a girl for three years in high school and when we broke up I was completely and totally devastated. In my adult life I don't think I experienced any emotion as strong or real as that with the exception of my military time and my children's birth.
In the end, things have a way of working out. I dated a lot of different people and I thought I was not gonna ever settle, then *BAM* I met THE girl. We went out on one date and she literally never left. We been married almost 13 years. I never saw it coming.
that's awesome.
I've learned not to get very depressed about a breakup.
i've been broken down a few times.
I spend about 3-7 days of sadness, then usually get back on my feet and start looking for something better.
but, i love my ex. ( not the one that just broke up with me. )
me and her have dating like 1864866 times.
but, i want a new relationship, but no matter wat i do.
i still am attracted so much by her.
I'm dangerous. I hurt people. but I don't mean to. I love her. But I don't. Does she love me?
OK I am keep it short and simple there's plenty of women out there for you also look at it as a learning experience and finally thank her because now u know she is not the right for you.